Renewal and Possibility: a journey into new beginnings

  

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As we welcome the New Year, we are filled with renewed hope and the promise of fresh beginnings. Whether you approach this year with excitement or step forward from a challenging past, take heart. The New Year ignites a sense of rebirth that encourages us to shift our perspectives, illuminating both our struggles and joys.

Change is a constant rhythm as natural as breathing: without it, life can stagnate. Just as a flower must bloom, wilt, and return to the earth before new growth can emerge, challenges invite us to shed what no longer serves us and listen more closely to our higher selves. Change is not the enemy of peace; rather it’s the pathway to renewal and growth.

My Journey of change

For me, the summer of 2025 marked a pivotal turning point. I felt a powerful force of change urging me to embrace transformation. My work underwent significant shifts as I transitioned into a new role and moved across the state. Initially, the uncertainty was overwhelming, but by leaning into the change rather than resisting it, I discovered a strength I didn’t know I had. 

The Change Framework

To intentionally navigate this transformative period, I’ve compiled my thoughts into an acronym: CHANGE. This acronym encapsulates suggestions for setting pure intentions to guide us through this transformative phase.

CHOICE: Every moment presents a choice: to embrace or resist change. 

HAPPINESS: Begin the New Year with the intention of choosing happiness for yourself and others. Joy is an internal choice.

ANCHOR: Stay connected with your higher wisdom.  An anchor allows you to navigate challenges with grace and clarity.

NEW: Welcome the flow of time and change. Embrace new experiences, people, and ideas with open arms.

GROWTH: Align yourself with time and change. When you trust in your greater self, growth becomes a natural part of your journey. 

EMERGENCE: From your inner strength, fresh creations arise, leading to fulfilling friendships, dreams, and joyous moments.

Voices of Inspiration

Reflecting on change and new beginnings, these quotes spoke to my heart. May they resonate with you as well. 

• “What the New Year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the New Year.” – Vern McLellan
• "The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” – Socrates
• “Every moment is a fresh beginning.” – T.S. Eliot
• “And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been.” – Rainer Maria Rilke
• “The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written.” – Melody Beattie

Your New Beginning

As we step into this New Year together, what are your intentions for this New Year?  What’s one thing you’re ready to change, embrace, or release?

I choose to welcome change with open arms: the excitement, the mystery, even the uncertainty. Let’s embark on this journey together, ready to explore the unknown and create a vibrant new chapter in our lives.

Here’s to new beginnings. Here’s to you.

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A Practice for Closing the Year

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Five word to carry into 2026: “Smile, breathe, and go slowly.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Feel the words as you say them, paying attention to your body.

Does this quote by Thich Nhat Hanh shift anything?

Like me, you might have always focused outward. Life’s ups and downs remind me that slowing down, smiling, and breathing fully is beneficial.

Five simple words. A daily practice that can change our whole perspective.

Smile

Our lives don’t need to be perfect to be smiling; they just require mindful awareness.

You’ve likely seen babies laughing or cute animals and smiled. 

There’s probably a special person in your life, and you feel your heart lift and your face light up.

Maybe it doesn’t even need to be someone you know. I’ve had this happen to me with a complete stranger. When you see someone smiling from ear to ear, filled with joy, you can’t help but smile too.

Life is better when you approach it with a smile. You don’t know how much you can brighten someone else’s day with something so simple.

A smile would make things better in most situations, but sometimes it feels impossible. That’s okay too.

Look for reasons to smile, whether it’s loved ones or strangers. Smiling breeds more joy, and who doesn’t want more of that?

Give it a try and see how much lighter and happier you feel. Your smile is a beautiful gift; share it. Do you feel different?

Breathe. 

We all breathe, but are we really?

When things seem chaotic, remember to breathe.

Be aware of your breath as it flows gently in and out of your body. When stressed, return your focus to your breath.

For me, just breathing means concentrating solely on nourishing our bodies with air and fostering a deep sense of internal safety.

Breathing exercises are now an important part of my daily routine. I can’t start or end my day without them.

If overwhelmed, forget about everything and take one slow deep breath at a time.

If scared, forget about what might hurt you and take care of yourself, one slow deep breath at a time.

The world inside our heads is often more chaotic than the outside world. We have power to calm it by remembering to breathe.

Breathing consciously has helped me overcome anxiety and provided a gateway into peace, reminding me that every day is filled with choices.

The breath is our anchor. Every breath is a chance to begin again.

Go slowly

How often do you feel overwhelmed? Is there a way to slow down?

I’ve known about creating space, slowing down, and simplifying for a while, but I only recently understood their deep impact.

We fear quiet self-reflection, so we keep the lights on and the dance floor full. We worry we’ll dislike our thoughts in quiet moments.

Slow isn’t dull; it’s contemplative and considered. It’s the yin in a yang world. It’s the strength of surrender, and surrender can be the most powerful victory.

Taking time for self-reflection is necessary for learning and growth, despite our busy lives.

As we close this year and open to the next, may we remember: "smile, breathe and go slowly."

 

The Pieces We Carry

I’d like to begin with a poem. This poem is from Rabbi Lawrence Kushner’s book “Honey from the Rock.”

“Jigsaw”

“Each lifetime is like a jigsaw puzzle, with different numbers of pieces and varying difficulties in assembly. Some are born with nearly completed puzzles, while others face challenges in assembling the myriad parts. But know this: no one possesses all the pieces to their own puzzle.

Just as before, when jigsaw puzzles were sealed in cellophane to ensure all pieces were present, everyone carries at least one and likely many pieces to someone else’s puzzle. Sometimes they realize this, while others remain unaware. When you present a piece, even if it’s worthless to you, to another, whether you know it or not, you become a messenger from the Most High.”

This poem uses the imagery of puzzle pieces to illustrate our capacity to connect, encourage, strengthen, and support one another. It symbolizes unity, teamwork, and hope.

It reminds me that just because you believe you can't reach a goal one way doesn't mean there's no alternative. Life is a continuous stream of choices, even when you feel limited in options.

The Choice I Didn't Know I Had

Years ago, I faced a daunting task: reading my work aloud to a group of writers for the first time.

The night before, fear lined up with all its companions—paranoia, nausea, panic. My inner critic had a field day: Who do you think you are? You're going to humiliate yourself. Everyone will see you're a fraud.

I stood at a choice point, though I didn't recognize it at first. I thought my only options were: go and suffer, or quit and prove the critic right.

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But then something shifted. Instead of fretting or giving in to panic, I found a mindful middle ground. I could choose how I showed up, even if I couldn't control the outcome. I could choose to breathe. I could choose to read my truth, regardless of how it was received. I could choose to see this as an offering, not a performance.

That morning, I walked into the room. My hands shook as I read. My voice wavered. But I kept going.

And something remarkable happened: when I finished, someone in the circle said, "Thank you for sharing that. It gave me permission to try something I've been afraid of."

I had offered a puzzle piece without even knowing it.

What Choices Really Mean

We shape our reality with every moment through the choices we make. Even in difficult situations, we have more choices than we realize.

When faced with something we can't change, we can shift our focus. We can alter our perspective, our response, our beliefs, and our actions. There's always another way not necessarily an easier way, but a different way.

New ways await discovery. If one approach fails, we can explore. We can expand and discover new insights and possibilities.

Every day, we have limitless opportunities to live an empowered life. Our experience is a result of our decisions, not the cause of them. We can shape our circumstances and support those around us with love and attention.

Our mindset shapes our lives. Our energy flows where we focus our attention. We can look forward to the future with hope, regardless of circumstances.

Carrying Pieces into the New Year

As we close this year and open to the next, I'm thinking about the puzzle pieces we carry both our own and those meant for others.

What if we approached the new year knowing that we don't have all our own pieces, and that's exactly as it should be? What if we trusted that the pieces we need will come from unexpected places, from unlikely messengers?

And what if we stayed alert to the moments when we're offering a piece to someone else—a word of encouragement, a listening ear, a choice to show up despite fear—even when we can't see the full picture of how it matters?

We are all messengers, whether we know it or not.

In closing, Maya Angelou's words resonate: "No matter what happens, life goes on, and it will be better tomorrow."

May we choose hope. May we choose connection. May we carry each other's pieces with care.